Both my parents were diagnosed with dementia, within a month of each other last year, Mum with Vascular and Dad with Alzheimers. It’s incredible the change in such a short space of time, and I know there is more and worse to come.
They enjoy listening to music from the past, and Dad will watch any sport, but only when I’m there, as they can’t use the TV remote control. I have tried to get them to play cards together, and jigsaws.
It’s sometimes funny and sad at the same time. I highly recommend a large digital clock (dementia clock) as it helps them to keep track of days and dates, which helps with food. Also a simple mechanical kitchen timer for cooking. Also got them Alexa, as they can ask questions, play music and set a timer when they forget how to use the mechanical one.
They were both given medication that has slowed the disease progression, but that is now not helping.
There is much talk about the disease, about the need to do more, but the reality is, that family / children have to pick up the pieces and deal with the emotional turmoil. It is important to be kind to yourself and not feel guilty, when you need to step away for a breather.
It is important that everyone considers POA, because by the time it happens, it’s too late. I was fortunate to get it all in place, as dealing with banks / authorities etc. is time consuming enough.
One thing I have found, is that by making them try to do tasks (as opposed to becoming reliant on me) has given them better focus. That won’t last forever, but it’s given them some independence for a little longer.