Going back to the sentiments of the OP - I think you have a point.
This crisis has been horrendous for some people ; the elderly, the unwell, the elderly AND unwell, and anyone who finds themselves in a front-line occupation, be that health, social care, transport.
It has been tough for others too - like extended families, people who have seen their salaries/livelihood put under threat, children (often overlooked).
What has been striking to me though, is that it isn't those groups who seem to be making the most noise and doing the most complaining. For the most part, they have largely been getting on with things as best they can, and compromising their lifestyle as they go.
But for a worryingly large group of people, this behaviour seems beyond them. Some of them carry on going out unnecessarily, some panic buy, some don't practice social distancing, and many of them do all three.
What worries me more is the people whose first reaction is to pick holes in everything. People who don't understand that a hurriedly produced "guideline" in an unprecedented situation doesn't mean you park your own judgement in the shed. People who only see things through a personal prism. Unfortunately, our media seems fascinated by the noise that they make and not all that willing to represent an alternative, and rather more stoical point of view.
I find myself thinking back to the Blitz. I know people grumbled then, and they were frightened and sometimes doubtful about whether we were doing the right thing. But they got on with it. Can you imagine our woke generation who flood Twitter with their faux outrage about anything and everything surviving the early 1940s?
Societies evolve, and in many ways (mostly material) we are far better off now than we were then. But I'm not sure we have always evolved for the better.