Assisted Dying.

Its too late then, morally how can someone do that and convince themselves they did the right thing. They killed a baby but its ok because I got to prioritise my career. Surely that's would haunt them.

No, a true family would pull together IMO, help out, the young mother can study and or work but it's important to spend the majority of time with the baby 1st year in particular, then with help and later nursery there's absolutely no reason someone can go on and get a decent job.

Or being so far down the line and of someone was willing to get rid, knowing they don't want the baby at this time why kill it? Why not put it up for adoption?

The mental gymnastics society has got itself in to justify and normalise this sort of thing is wrong IMO.

We had a balance, many still weren't happy about 24 weeks but it didn't really come up much as it's a kind of compromise. But after that is just getting more and more immortal every day that baby develops.
Nigel says he's against abortion, taking the right wing Fundamentalist approach from America and suddenly rights that women have fought hard for for decades are back up in the air.

If you're not a woman, its nothing to do with you. A woman's body is her own business.

End of.
 
Nigel says he's against abortion, taking the right wing Fundamentalist approach from America and suddenly rights that women have fought hard for for decades are back up in the air.

If you're not a woman, its nothing to do with you. A woman's body is her own business.

End of.
What a stupid argument, so a woman can just kill hers and a man's baby, no she can't, or couldn't.

No that's not what hes done, hes said even 24 weeks is quite advanced, which it is.

What about the rights of the baby. This bill will allow it up until birth, which in anything other than special circumstances is completely wrong.
 
Its too late then, morally how can someone do that and convince themselves they did the right thing. They killed a baby but its ok because I got to prioritise my career. Surely that's would haunt them.

No, a true family would pull together IMO, help out, the young mother can study and or work but it's important to spend the majority of time with the baby 1st year in particular, then with help and later nursery there's absolutely no reason someone can go on and get a decent job.

Or being so far down the line and of someone was willing to get rid, knowing they don't want the baby at this time why kill it? Why not put it up for adoption?

The mental gymnastics society has got itself in to justify and normalise this sort of thing is wrong IMO.

We had a balance, many still weren't happy about 24 weeks but it didn't really come up much as it's a kind of compromise. But after that is just getting more and more immortal every day that baby develops.
You make a valid point about adoption for longer term potential terminations. A termination having got caught out in the first couple of months is almost the same as taking the pill. Are you also against that?
 
You make a valid point about adoption for longer term potential terminations. A termination having got caught out in the first couple of months is almost the same as taking the pill. Are you also against that?
I'm not on the Christian American view, although it's still a tough thing. The longer it goes on the worse it gets. But even an early one leaves people with a sense of what if. Afterall, that was going to be a person if left unchecked, who would they be, what would they be like if they had just gone along with it?

As said the issue hadn't gained much thought as it was, kind of widely accepted compromise, but now it's opened it up and you do think about it more, it's a touchy area. But moving it on beyond 24 weeks on to a fully grown baby is deeply troubling and should be for everyone.
 
What a stupid argument, so a woman can just kill hers and a man's baby, no she can't, or couldn't.

No that's not what hes done, hes said even 24 weeks is quite advanced, which it is.

What about the rights of the baby. This bill will allow it up until birth, which in anything other than special circumstances is completely wrong.
Fundamentalist nonsense from Farage and the Right.

A woman's right to choose.

Legally enshrined since the 60s, suddenly trying to turn back the clock.
 
Fundamentalist nonsense from Farage and the Right.

A woman's right to choose.

Legally enshrined since the 60s, suddenly trying to turn back the clock.
You've made that up, all he did was give his personal opinion that in this day and age, 24 weeks is quite survivable. A perfectly reasonable position.

I suggest you look up a baby at that age.

Thw right to choose doesn't mean the right to eliminate a near fully grown baby's life.

There was no need for the current change to abortion.

I thought the left were meant to be the kind ones...
 
You've made that up, all he did was give his personal opinion that in this day and age, 24 weeks is quite survivable. A perfectly reasonable position.

I suggest you look up a baby at that age.

Thw right to choose doesn't mean the right to eliminate a near fully grown baby's life.

There was no need for the current change to abortion.

I thought the left were meant to be the kind ones...
The amendment to the law doesn't change the time frames as they are. It changes the criminality aspect of the very rare cases that do occur.

Nigel wants to take it back to 10 weeks.

And its nothing to do with assisted dying. Two separate issues and votes.
 
Its got to go through the Lords who many said intent to block it by delaying, keep up.

Post 56.
The House of Lords is a revising chamber and quite rightly so. They will help to sharpen the safety elements of the bill as well as cleaning up the bureaucracy. The Lords cannot block the intensions of the Commons. The Bill will pass into legislation...keep up.
 
The amendment to the law doesn't change the time frames as they are. It changes the criminality aspect of the very rare cases that do occur.

Nigel wants to take it back to 10 weeks.

And its nothing to do with assisted dying. Two separate issues and votes.
It allows self abortion to be decriminalised beyond 24 weeks, meaning up until birth. All wrong.

You can keep going on about Nigel but nowt to do with him.

People keep replying then moaning it's not in topic. 🤷
 
The House of Lords is a revising chamber and quite rightly so. They will help to sharpen the safety elements of the bill as well as cleaning up the bureaucracy. The Lords cannot block the intensions of the Commons. The Bill will pass into legislation...keep up.
Again, post 56, is what I was referring to. Whether it's possible or not IDK but some clearly seem to think it is.
 
Again, post 56, is what I was referring to. Whether it's possible or not IDK but some clearly seem to think it is.
Yes, I've seen that post but the idea that the Lords will stop the will of the Commons would create a constitutional impasse that might see the Lords dissolved. I think that's nonsense btw but I forsee a straightforward passage through the Lords.
 
Yes, I've seen that post but the idea that the Lords will stop the will of the Commons would create a constitutional impasse that might see the Lords dissolved. I think that's nonsense btw but I forsee a straightforward passage through the Lords.
So you think suitable time has been spent on these very important new laws, even though it's had significantly less time than was spent on fox hunting...
 
Its too late then, morally how can someone do that and convince themselves they did the right thing. They killed a baby but its ok because I got to prioritise my career. Surely that's would haunt them.

No, a true family would pull together IMO, help out, the young mother can study and or work but it's important to spend the majority of time with the baby 1st year in particular, then with help and later nursery there's absolutely no reason someone can go on and get a decent job.

Or being so far down the line and of someone was willing to get rid, knowing they don't want the baby at this time why kill it? Why not put it up for adoption?

The mental gymnastics society has got itself in to justify and normalise this sort of thing is wrong IMO.

We had a balance, many still weren't happy about 24 weeks but it didn't really come up much as it's a kind of compromise. But after that is just getting more and more immortal every day that baby develops.
Not all pregnant mothers to be have family to muck in, and circumstances change.
I could not abort a child, but I try to remain open minded on this one. Things are rarely so black and white, and as you will never be a single mum, faced with whatever other issues they may have, you will never fully understand the implications of any decision, either way.
 
Not all pregnant mothers to be have family to muck in, and circumstances change.
I could not abort a child, but I try to remain open minded on this one. Things are rarely so black and white, and as you will never be a single mum, faced with whatever other issues they may have, you will never fully understand the implications of any decision, either way.
No, but adoption is surely a better option, if they don't want the child yet or ever, then surely that's a better way than getting rid of a life.
 
JJ... Just so you're actually working with facts, not feelings:

The gestating zygote you’re so concerned about (it's not a baby at that point, let’s not pretend otherwise) only has any chance of survival if it’s born in a hospital with full neonatal intensive care support.

Here’s the actual survival data in the UK:
20 weeks: 0% survival.......lungs, brain, and other vital organs are nowhere near developed enough.
22–23 weeks: 1% survival.....with intensive medical intervention.
24 weeks: 40% survival.......but only with medical aid. Without it? Less than 1%.

And even then, over 60% of babies who do survive at 24 weeks will go on to suffer moderate to severe lifelong impairments.
That’s the medical reality, not some made up morality.

As for abortions:
99.25% of ALL abortions happen before 20 weeks in the UK
99.99% are performed before 24 weeks.....within legal and medical boundaries.
Just 0.01% happen at 24 weeks, and they are due to catastrophic fetal abnormalities or severe risk to the mother's life.

We don’t live in some 1950s dystopia.....Women aren’t forced into church-run homes, they’re not put through forced adoptions, and they aren’t ending their lives in shame for being pregnant out of wedlock.....I think that's a great improvement as this isn't becoming The Handmaid's Tale

In just 2 minutes, you can fact-check this nonsense you're parroting,
Its beginning to sound like the stuff you hear from a MAGA rally or some fire-and-brimstone, pseudo-Christian Facebook Karen from Alabama.
 
No, but adoption is surely a better option, if they don't want the child yet or ever, then surely that's a better way than getting rid of a life.
I may personally agree with that. But on some level adoption can also bring about many other issues. It’s complex in some cases.
 
I may personally agree with that. But on some level adoption can also bring about many other issues. It’s complex in some cases.
The law didn't need changing, didn't hear anyone making the case for it to before this.
 
JJ... Just so you're actually working with facts, not feelings:

The gestating zygote you’re so concerned about (it's not a baby at that point, let’s not pretend otherwise) only has any chance of survival if it’s born in a hospital with full neonatal intensive care support.

Here’s the actual survival data in the UK:
20 weeks: 0% survival.......lungs, brain, and other vital organs are nowhere near developed enough.
22–23 weeks: 1% survival.....with intensive medical intervention.
24 weeks: 40% survival.......but only with medical aid. Without it? Less than 1%.

And even then, over 60% of babies who do survive at 24 weeks will go on to suffer moderate to severe lifelong impairments.
That’s the medical reality, not some made up morality.

As for abortions:
99.25% of ALL abortions happen before 20 weeks in the UK
99.99% are performed before 24 weeks.....within legal and medical boundaries.
Just 0.01% happen at 24 weeks, and they are due to catastrophic fetal abnormalities or severe risk to the mother's life.

We don’t live in some 1950s dystopia.....Women aren’t forced into church-run homes, they’re not put through forced adoptions, and they aren’t ending their lives in shame for being pregnant out of wedlock.....I think that's a great improvement as this isn't becoming The Handmaid's Tale

In just 2 minutes, you can fact-check this nonsense you're parroting,
Its beginning to sound like the stuff you hear from a MAGA rally or some fire-and-brimstone, pseudo-Christian Facebook Karen from Alabama.
Maybe if you tried replying directly to people they nearly wouldn't miss this.

After 24 weeks it's about 80% survival rate. Last I checked we're in a country with such hospital support care.

Who knew that you would be on the side of this terrible bill.

Youve completely misunderstood the posts it seems,as we weren't on about before the 24 weeks.

So your little fact check rant is completely pointless.
 
Face it, it's been rushed through and many who know far more than us have real concerns.
Sorry, I don't read it like that. It's a private members bill so it's always scrabbling for debating time in a packed Government programme. Did it need more time? I don't know. However, there were those MPs who voted for the Bill to continue at it's early stages whilst commenting that if they felt it was too rushed, they would vote against at 3rd reading: David Davis was one such MP. Even so, sufficient MPs voted for it to get it through The Commons.
 
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Maybe if you tried replying directly to people they nearly wouldn't miss this.

After 24 weeks it's about 80% survival rate. Last I checked we're in a country with such hospital support care.

Who knew that you would be on the side of this terrible bill.

Youve completely misunderstood the posts it seems,as we weren't on about before the 24 weeks.

So your little fact check rant is completely pointless.
You have blithely chosen to ignore @B_Side_The_C_Side 's key statistic, that 99.25% of all abortions happen before 20 weeks in the UK. His post is very informative and worth considering. It's not a rant - as you choose to frame it.
 
I don't think it's a rant.
And by the way JJ.....I'm not on the side of this terrible bill

I do believe that all women must have the right to choose when it comes to abortion.
Before 24 weeks, I have no issue and even after that, where it's a serious risk to the mother’s life or catastrophic fetal abnormalities.

Now, back to the main point of this thread…Assisted Dying
I don’t believe an assisted dying programme can truly work in real life......or can be supported by the NHS
Not because (as someone thinks).... I lack compassion.....far from it.
I wouldn’t wish the pain of watching any loved one die on anyone and I think we have all been there.

Death isn’t something we can neatly organise like an appointment with the Doctor.
It happens every day, in countless different ways, with timing and circumstances that nobody can fully control.
So how do we actually decide when it becomes something we plan a time for, rather than something we just respond to?

It's not a lack of empathy, it's turning death into a scheduled event that raises moral, emotional, and practical questions.
I just don't believe we are ready to answer those questions....at any time
 
Sorry, I don't read it like that. It's a private members bill so it's always scrabbling for debating time in a packed Government programme. Did it need more time? I don't know. However, there were those MPs who voted for the Bill to continue at it's early stages whilst commenting that if they felt it was too rushed, they would vote against at 3rd reading: David Davis was one such MP. Even so, sufficient MPs voted for it to get it through The Commons.
I think this will be another thing to come back to bite them, once people see abuses happening.
 
I don't think it's a rant.
And by the way JJ.....I'm not on the side of this terrible bill

I do believe that all women must have the right to choose when it comes to abortion.
Before 24 weeks, I have no issue and even after that, where it's a serious risk to the mother’s life or catastrophic fetal abnormalities.

Now, back to the main point of this thread…Assisted Dying
I don’t believe an assisted dying programme can truly work in real life......or can be supported by the NHS
Not because (as someone thinks).... I lack compassion.....far from it.
I wouldn’t wish the pain of watching any loved one die on anyone and I think we have all been there.

Death isn’t something we can neatly organise like an appointment with the Doctor.
It happens every day, in countless different ways, with timing and circumstances that nobody can fully control.
So how do we actually decide when it becomes something we plan a time for, rather than something we just respond to?

It's not a lack of empathy, it's turning death into a scheduled event that raises moral, emotional, and practical questions.
I just don't believe we are ready to answer those questions....at any time
Going back on topic…. Assisted dying.

If I want to “schedule” my own death (as you put it), provided I satisfy all the criteria in the new bill, why should anyone else be able to deny me? Do you allow other people to deny you your choice in any other sphere?

Remembering, of course, that each of us can choose to end our lives at any time regardless of the law. There’s nothing the state can do to prevent that, if that’s what the individual chooses to do.
 
JJ... Just so you're actually working with facts, not feelings:

The gestating zygote you’re so concerned about (it's not a baby at that point, let’s not pretend otherwise) only has any chance of survival if it’s born in a hospital with full neonatal intensive care support.

Here’s the actual survival data in the UK:
20 weeks: 0% survival.......lungs, brain, and other vital organs are nowhere near developed enough.
22–23 weeks: 1% survival.....with intensive medical intervention.
24 weeks: 40% survival.......but only with medical aid. Without it? Less than 1%.

And even then, over 60% of babies who do survive at 24 weeks will go on to suffer moderate to severe lifelong impairments.
That’s the medical reality, not some made up morality.

As for abortions:
99.25% of ALL abortions happen before 20 weeks in the UK
99.99% are performed before 24 weeks.....within legal and medical boundaries.
Just 0.01% happen at 24 weeks, and they are due to catastrophic fetal abnormalities or severe risk to the mother's life.

We don’t live in some 1950s dystopia.....Women aren’t forced into church-run homes, they’re not put through forced adoptions, and they aren’t ending their lives in shame for being pregnant out of wedlock.....I think that's a great improvement as this isn't becoming The Handmaid's Tale

In just 2 minutes, you can fact-check this nonsense you're parroting,
Its beginning to sound like the stuff you hear from a MAGA rally or some fire-and-brimstone, pseudo-Christian Facebook Karen from Alabama.
Exactly. Trump's America and Farage's ideas for here are getting more like Gilead every day.
 
Going back on topic…. Assisted dying.

If I want to “schedule” my own death (as you put it), provided I satisfy all the criteria in the new bill, why should anyone else be able to deny me? Do you allow other people to deny you your choice in any other sphere?

Remembering, of course, that each of us can choose to end our lives at any time regardless of the law. There’s nothing the state can do to prevent that, if that’s what the individual chooses to do.
And assisted dying is far more peaceful and leaves much less of a burden and legacy on those left behind if you go down the other optional route.
 
And assisted dying is far more peaceful and leaves much less of a burden and legacy on those left behind if you go down the other optional route.
Yes. That’s pretty much how I’ve regarded the new bill. The new Act (if passed) will make the process more “civilised”. But ultimately we can all choose the moment of our own end. That’s always been the case and will always remain so.
 
Yes. That’s pretty much how I’ve regarded the new bill. The new Act (if passed) will make the process more “civilised”. But ultimately we can all choose the moment of our own end. That’s always been the case and will always remain so.
Agreed.
 
You have blithely chosen to ignore @B_Side_The_C_Side 's key statistic, that 99.25% of all abortions happen before 20 weeks in the UK. His post is very informative and worth considering. It's not a rant - as you choose to frame it.
Slightly lower I think, this opens the door for abuse by immoral or eveb desperate people and for the numbers to rise with no deterrent. Whilst it may be low in % terms it's still hundreds and could rise to thousands of baby's that would have survived. If putting it in % form makes people feel better that's on them.
 
I don't think it's a rant.
And by the way JJ.....I'm not on the side of this terrible bill

I do believe that all women must have the right to choose when it comes to abortion.
Before 24 weeks, I have no issue and even after that, where it's a serious risk to the mother’s life or catastrophic fetal abnormalities.

Now, back to the main point of this thread…Assisted Dying
I don’t believe an assisted dying programme can truly work in real life......or can be supported by the NHS
Not because (as someone thinks).... I lack compassion.....far from it.
I wouldn’t wish the pain of watching any loved one die on anyone and I think we have all been there.

Death isn’t something we can neatly organise like an appointment with the Doctor.
It happens every day, in countless different ways, with timing and circumstances that nobody can fully control.
So how do we actually decide when it becomes something we plan a time for, rather than something we just respond to?

It's not a lack of empathy, it's turning death into a scheduled event that raises moral, emotional, and practical questions.
I just don't believe we are ready to answer those questions....at any time
I've kind of answered the first bit in my last post and I've said special circumstances yes, but this step, for those against it, fear a rise in the after 24 weeks category.

As for your other bit I largely agree. It fundamentally changes the nature of the NHS or doctor, from health givers to something more, even more sinister potentially.

Then you have the vulnerable and all that can go wrong.

Found this interesting from this guy.

 
We already have assisted dying and it's called palliative care, it's not perfect as nothing ever is. If this bill is passed sooner or later it will come down to money not medical necessity. So a thumbs down from me after much thought.
 
We already have assisted dying and it's called palliative care, it's not perfect as nothing ever is. If this bill is passed sooner or later it will come down to money not medical necessity. So a thumbs down from me after much thought.
In my experience palliative care is about people being in excruciating pain until someone in charge decides to give them a dosage of morphine large enough to relieve the pain, in the knowledge it’ll also kill them.

The Assisted Dying Bill is about avoiding that scenario.
 
In my experience palliative care is about people being in excruciating pain until someone in charge decides to give them a dosage of morphine large enough to relieve the pain, in the knowledge it’ll also kill them.

The Assisted Dying Bill is about avoiding that scenario.
A good friend of mone who died a year last February was given a litre bottle of morphine as his way out if he wanted it. The old truism is 'tough cases make bad law' and the safeguards even if perfect will go by the wayside soon enough. A round of Chemo costs ~£4k euthanasia ~£200. Money will pervert all good intentions, so no. Edit to add I haven't checked the figures given.
 
We are in control of how we live our own lives, but have no control over how we die, and I think that can be more frightening than death itself.

Our default position has always been we shouldn't allow it because it's unsafe, whereas I think our default position should have always been we should allow it, so what do we need to do to ensure it's safe.
 
If I want to “schedule” my own death (as you put it), provided I satisfy all the criteria in the new bill, why should anyone else be able to deny me? Do you allow other people to deny you your choice in any other sphere?

Remembering, of course, that each of us can choose to end our lives at any time regardless of the law. There’s nothing the state can do to prevent that, if that’s what the individual chooses to do.
Great post...You're 100% right

I think that’s why we end up talking about our dogs passing, because, heartbreakingly, it’s the only time we’re allowed to let go with compassion. There’s a process. It’s calm, it’s kind, and it’s fully accepted.
And yet, when it comes to people, I suddenly can’t cope with the idea.

It’s such a simple comparison, but it says so much.
The idea of choosing to die with dignity is weighed down by guilt, fear, religion, legality, others judgment.
That emotional weight alone is massive for me.
And every time you think you’ve found clarity, there's another reason that will pop up to stop you.

It’s not about laws or policies, it’s about undoing everything we’ve been taught about control, suffering, love and who gets to choose when it’s time.
That’s why this conversation feels so impossible….
 
Just bumping this thread.

It was nice to see the latest assisted dying bill vote in Parliament was carried today albeit by a small majority.

On to the House of Lords next.
Thinking of putting yourself out of your misery Jaffa?

Sorry, couldn't resist.
 
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