Limechase
Well-known member
OK, this is a strange one. please dont judge, as I think the term is "its complicated" I am not interested in moral digs, but would welcome any advice?
I found out this week my mother has died at her home in Spain.......... 7yrs ago!! (aged 77yrs)
As you may guess in recent years we weren't close, due to the above "its complicated"
I am an only child & she was divorced from my dad in the 1960s so only relatives at the time were a brother & sister, (my uncle & aunty) both since deceased
Apart from the unexpected shock & a certain amount of grief, she was my mum after all. ....I have a copy of a Spanish will, that gives me as the only benefactor, but it could have been superseded
My current dilemma is , firstly I would still like to find out what happened to her, how she died (in case there are medical lessons for me) & she would have had a reasonable estate (best guess £3-400k).
I have a spanish solicitor, who has said that even with the passage of time, I may be able to find out the destination of her estate. She did some work for a Cancer Charity, so if it went there, I would be at peace with that.. Or it may still be in limbo? but no one has tried to contact me in the whole 7yrs.
The solicitor has found her old address is not registered to her name (I thought that was a strange avenue to go down, but I dont know spanish law, other than it is difficult to ignore/disinherit children.)
The solicitor thinks we can do a deeper search to see what happened to the property & therefore possibly the estate? This may be throwing good money after bad?
I know she maintained UK bank accounts, not sure if these would be accessible by a spanish solicitor closing her estate? or if they may still be active?
I am happy to spend an amount of money to just find out about her final time & estate, but I will have to draw the line at some point.
Has anybody any thoughts on this, please?
I found out this week my mother has died at her home in Spain.......... 7yrs ago!! (aged 77yrs)
As you may guess in recent years we weren't close, due to the above "its complicated"
I am an only child & she was divorced from my dad in the 1960s so only relatives at the time were a brother & sister, (my uncle & aunty) both since deceased
Apart from the unexpected shock & a certain amount of grief, she was my mum after all. ....I have a copy of a Spanish will, that gives me as the only benefactor, but it could have been superseded
My current dilemma is , firstly I would still like to find out what happened to her, how she died (in case there are medical lessons for me) & she would have had a reasonable estate (best guess £3-400k).
I have a spanish solicitor, who has said that even with the passage of time, I may be able to find out the destination of her estate. She did some work for a Cancer Charity, so if it went there, I would be at peace with that.. Or it may still be in limbo? but no one has tried to contact me in the whole 7yrs.
The solicitor has found her old address is not registered to her name (I thought that was a strange avenue to go down, but I dont know spanish law, other than it is difficult to ignore/disinherit children.)
The solicitor thinks we can do a deeper search to see what happened to the property & therefore possibly the estate? This may be throwing good money after bad?
I know she maintained UK bank accounts, not sure if these would be accessible by a spanish solicitor closing her estate? or if they may still be active?
I am happy to spend an amount of money to just find out about her final time & estate, but I will have to draw the line at some point.
Has anybody any thoughts on this, please?