Matesrates
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When married. I’m surprised that in this day and age of equality, inclusion etc, this hasn’t been challenged.
Still, the vast majority comply.It’s optional!
Some don’t, as said above.Ok, I’ve never looked into it so I assumed it was a requirement. So I wonder why women still happily do it.
Yes. I’ve known blokes taking their wife’s name in the double barrelled style.Why does it heed to be challenged, when it has never been compulsory to do it? Some women don't change their surname or retain their existing surname in a double barrelled version with their husband's surname. Their kids also often have double barrelled surnames as well
Whats the fellas name your looking to take?When married. I’m surprised that in this day and age of equality, inclusion etc, this hasn’t been challenged.
Our own Gary Taylor-Fletcher was previously known as Gary Fletcher before his marriage in 2004.Blokes who get married and then assume a double barrel surname are absolute wet wipes
Indeed...nobody seems to think what happens in the future when "John Wilson-Smith wants to marry Katie Johnson-Jones"...Double-barrelling can become very difficult as the generations move on.
In my case, I kept my own surname and asked my wife to combine her maiden name with my surname - she'd already been married twice and when we met she had her second husband's surname (which her son retains).
The whole thing goes back to times when women became chattels of their husband. As we moved to more enlightened times this obligation on her part became met with an obligation on his part to maintain the wife and children.
We've moved on again and at the moment tradition holds sway with some, not with others. Hey ho.
I suppose it’s a statement, in front of friends and family, of the commitment a couple have made to each other.With less and less traditions being carried out and hardly anyone regularly going to church, what's the main point of marriage nowadays? Is it just financial or is there more to it than that?
Gary Taylor-Fletcher for one.Yes. I’ve known blokes taking their wife’s name in the double barrelled style.
(Cue a few heart tremors from some on here).
Gary Taylor Fletcher for oneYes. I’ve known blokes taking their wife’s name in the double barrelled style.
(Cue a few heart tremors from some on here).
It’s individual choice mateWhen married. I’m surprised that in this day and age of equality, inclusion etc, this hasn’t been challenged.
Have you been “Pressed On” it many times?Unluckily my dad had the shittest surname in Blackpool
I’ve been caned for it all my life ️
It’s an individual choice...if you don’t want to get married and don’t see the point then that’s down to you...it’s a FREE CountryWith less and less traditions being carried out and hardly anyone regularly going to church, what's the main point of marriage nowadays? Is it just financial or is there more to it than that?
My brother in law has. Oh yes. You are right !.Blokes who get married and then assume a double barrel surname are absolute wet wipes
Lala did you sea a woman on This morning her name was Di something…..she married a Mr Coke…she became Di CokeSome don’t, as said above.
I would have done, if I’d married when younger and more naive.
If I married now, which I won’t, then I wouldn’t because I feel like I’d lose a part of my own identity that I feel I’ve only recently established myself !
Each to their own.
The Spanish tradition on double barreled family names has already dealt with this.Indeed...nobody seems to think what happens in the future when "John Wilson-Smith wants to marry Katie Johnson-Jones"...
Do they become Mr and Mrs Wilson-Smith-Johnson-Jones?? And then their children...
A stupid modern trend (imho )
Agree on ONE surname I say...either the husband's OR the wife's.
What happens when the double barrelled sibling marries someone else also double barrelled, do they become quadruple barrelled?Why does it heed to be challenged, when it has never been compulsory to do it? Some women don't change their surname or retain their existing surname in a double barrelled version with their husband's surname. Their kids also often have double barrelled surnames as well
It makes for an expensive named shirt in the club shopWhat happens when the double barrelled sibling marries someone else also double barrelled, do they become quadruple barrelled?
I think they should.
Wow!Doesn't really matter anymore, obviously the taking of a surname was all about keeping that surname going. Along with the desire to have a son to keep the family blood line going. Has been known back in the good old days if the good lady couldn't produce a lad, then "Off with her head" and a new younger good lady put in place.
But as in my opening line "Doesn't matter anymore". There is no male or female, if My son, my DNA and blood line decides he's a tin of processed mixed fruit then my family line is going to legally end. Should my son pregnate a woman and have a child then my DNA and blood line will still continue. However if He and his spouse are non binary and see themselves as "A processed tin of mix fruits and A bouquet of roses". Then the birth certificate is going to lose my surname and the last trace of me on earth....