Making friends

Good luck with that , let us know all about him/her if you get them šŸ¶
Actually, Lala, if I could work out how to reduce the size of a photo on my MacBook, there would be a picture already!

And she has a name.




Our old dog was Molly




So this one is Mossy !
 
Love it ! What kind and how old ?
She is another Golden Retriever, and we will getting her second week December, currently only a couple of weeks old.

Looking forward to the sleepless nights and accidents!

Also, maybe going to take a leaf out of your book and go down to 4 days early next year. My missus has been working way too many days to cover this last year too, so she has also given them an ultimatum. We have a good life, but would improve with less work.IMG_1178.jpg
 
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She is another Golden Retriever, and we will getting her second week December, currently only a couple of weeks old.

Looking forward to the sleepless nights and accidents!

Also, maybe going to take a leaf out of your book and go down to 4 days early next year. My missus has been working way too many days to cover this last year too, so she has also given them an ultimatum. We have a good life, but would improve with less work.View attachment 17019
She is beautiful ! šŸ„°šŸ„° and yes re work reduction. It will be great for you and makes such a difference. Go you šŸ‘ŒšŸ‘šŸ‘
 
Another one who's mates go back in the main to school days.
Concerning blokes opening up, me & probably my best mate back then were a right couple of fannies discussing everything. Remember discussing shaving & the effect splashing after shave on your sore face had. We welcomed open discussion on moisturising & balm.
"Here they go again" šŸ˜‚
 
I don't really want to make friends these days, used to, but I don't really like people anymore, I lost faith in humanity a while ago.

Sorry, just the truth.
I understand how you can get like that and I wonā€™t ever go out looking for friends, Iā€™m quite resistant to it to be honest. But sometimes you just meet one of the many good ones and itā€˜s hard not to engage.
There are some great people out there.
 
I definitely donā€™t do holiday friendsā€¦my wife last year made the huge error of being lured into a convo with a couple while I was getting drinksā€¦.
Feck me what a boring numpty the bloke was he drained the life out of me chatting crapā€¦he then started showing me pictures on his phone of his new resin driveway at his house in Preston..
Well that was it we made excuses sharpish and went to the beachā€¦ā€¦Preston I tell yaā€¦.
I on purposely swerve hotels abroad if they are full of Brits. Itā€™s one of the things I look for on reviews - if itā€™s says ā€œwe were the only Brits, it was full of ā€¦ ā€œ then thatā€™s a big tick for me.

Nothing worse than Bob and Karen asking you ā€œwhere youā€™re fromā€ and ā€œwhich team you supportā€, ā€œhave you had a decent pint yetā€ bollocks.
 
I on purposely swerve hotels abroad if they are full of Brits. Itā€™s one of the things I look for on reviews - if itā€™s says ā€œwe were the only Brits, it was full of ā€¦ ā€œ then thatā€™s a big tick for me.

Nothing worse than Bob and Karen asking you ā€œwhere youā€™re fromā€ and ā€œwhich team you supportā€, ā€œhave you had a decent pint yetā€ bollocks.
I find that sunglasses and your head down works a treatā€¦.but the feckers can still creep up on you šŸ˜‚
 
I find that sunglasses and your head down works a treatā€¦.but the feckers can still creep up on you šŸ˜‚
Excuse yourself and head for the toilet.

If they follow you in just make for a cubicle as opposed to a urinal and lock yourself in. Then sit down and log into avftt for 15 minutes. And find another annoying fecker to get on your tits (that wasnā€™t directed at you by the way - just the other annoying feckers).
 
I don't really want to make friends these days, used to, but I don't really like people anymore, I lost faith in humanity a while ago.

Sorry, just the truth.
šŸ˜‚ Thereā€™s a lot of truth in that.

Iā€™ve been going to the same gym for a few years now. Thereā€™s a group of blokes about my age who sit in a line of the bikes pedalling very slowly and chatting. They used to glance over in my direction but I think they picked up the ā€œdonā€™t fecking bother trying to talk to me - Iā€™m not interestedā€ vibes. That said they sent one old chap over recently who commented on how sweaty I was and told me about his recent heart attack. I wasnā€™t rude but we didnā€™t talk for long.

In short I donā€™t go to the gym to 1) make friends 2) chat 3) pull 4) model the latest designer gear. I go to work up a sweat until I get bored. And then I go home.
 
I find that sunglasses and your head down works a treatā€¦.but the feckers can still creep up on you šŸ˜‚
When my wife has spoken to someone on holiday and I see them approaching I just lie back on the sunbed with earbuds in pretending I'm asleep. No music playing just thinking "phew got away with that"
 
Everyone is a ** until they prove themselves otherwise.

I make friends easily which is handy as Iā€™ve moved around a fair bit.

I reckon I know within two seconds of meeting someone wether they are worthy of my friendship, there have been the odd exceptions to this rule both ways.

For someone who doesnā€™t like the human race much I have a lot of friendsšŸ˜®šŸ¤·ā€ā™‚ļø
 
šŸ˜‚ Thereā€™s a lot of truth in that.

Iā€™ve been going to the same gym for a few years now. Thereā€™s a group of blokes about my age who sit in a line of the bikes pedalling very slowly and chatting. They used to glance over in my direction but I think they picked up the ā€œdonā€™t fecking bother trying to talk to me - Iā€™m not interestedā€ vibes. That said they sent one old chap over recently who commented on how sweaty I was and told me about his recent heart attack. I wasnā€™t rude but we didnā€™t talk for long.

In short I donā€™t go to the gym to 1) make friends 2) chat 3) pull 4) model the latest designer gear. I go to work up a sweat until I get bored. And then I go home.
Sounds like a group that used to go to Stanley Park gym.
 
She is another Golden Retriever, and we will getting her second week December, currently only a couple of weeks old.

Looking forward to the sleepless nights and accidents!

Also, maybe going to take a leaf out of your book and go down to 4 days early next year. My missus has been working way too many days to cover this last year too, so she has also given them an ultimatum. We have a good life, but would improve with less work.View attachment 17019
Fantastic. Love Golden Retrievers.
If we weren't so old we would have another one by now.
Easy to train and very loving.
 
Pr
I need some new friends.

I expect Southshore and Complete Control (and the other shy one who never posts) think much the same.
Probably true Mex.

If I made a new 'bestie' I would have at some point introduce them to you lot and that would probably cause issues.

I find as I get older I get more judgemental and critical and this effects how I see people.

I like a lot of my daughter's friends but it would be weird to hang out with them too much.

Get a dog - you meet a lot of people that way. It is amazing the number of attractive women who come up to speak to Rob and me ( well mainly rob).
 
Pr
Probably true Mex.

If I made a new 'bestie' I would have at some point introduce them to you lot and that would probably cause issues.

I find as I get older I get more judgemental and critical and this effects how I see people.

I like a lot of my daughter's friends but it would be weird to hang out with them too much.

Get a dog - you meet a lot of people that way. It is amazing the number of attractive women who come up to speak to Rob and me ( well mainly rob).
Dogs like dogs
 
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