not ridiculous at all why do we need what type of sex people like rammed down our throats it is and should be private .The issue is its just a particular type rammed down our throats from a minority of people that are the ones with the serious issues. Most people want to live quietly and privately and dont want to ram what they do in bed down others throats . Homophobia is virtually non existent these days and its those with issues that have the problem