In response to the o/p:
Someone close to her will have come to collect her and lead her spiritual consciousness into the Heavenly light. Most likely Phillip or her mother, or both. They will act as her spirit guide / guardian angel, to make the transition easier for her.
It usually takes a few days for spirit energy to gather the entirety of a lifespan. The body remains ‘alive’ during this period, at least on a cellular/ energy level. Think of it as recording a backup storage of her life, in fast rewind. Those memories and energy encapsulates the spirit / soul of the person. That’s why if you see someone who has recently died, they can look at peace - free from pain and suffering, whereas after a few days the spirit has left them completely and the body is now effectively an empty soulless shell.
If the person doesn’t choose to go into the light (due to perceived unfinished business, guilt, fear of judgement, etc) they are effectively ‘stuck’ in limbo on the Earth plane, until such a time they are ready to move on, or someone can bring the light down again for them. Think ghosts & orbs.
Regarding reincarnation - this especially applies where the life is cut short (before their normal time), accidents, disasters, etc. if there’s a feeling in spirit of unfinished business. It can be an opportunity for spirits to improve their spiritual level, attain a higher level of spirituality in the Heavenly realm. (There’s different levels of Heaven.) A spirit will enter a suitable body not long after conception, but certainly before birth.
It’s highly likely there will be no previous memory of past life/lives (and memory reduces with age), e.g. a small child would remember more than an adult. Some memories might return in vivid dreams, or a sense of deja vu, seemingly irrational fears. There could be a family link, but good friends and family can and do reconnect spiritually. It might not be as expected though, so for example if you were a male chauvinist in the previous life, expect to come back as a female, etc. to learn and improve. There are many portals between Earth and Heaven, where spirits move between the realms. Some people can see these as black spots in the sky.
The spirit world is vast. Beyond our comprehension.