I'll admit it, I love Preston. Update.

HighfieldSeasider

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No, you plonkers, not the football team, the hospital.....

On Boxing Day our lives suddenly changed, at the age of 34, Emma, my partner of 10 years and mother of our 2 young children suffered a brain hemorrhage and stroke at home in South Shore.

One minute she was absolutely fine, we had been putting the kids toys away and were preparing for some family and friends to come round to watch the match. Out of nowhere she said she didn't feel right, she was hot, had a headache and felt sick. I managed to help her from the bathroom to the bed, she felt like she was going to collapse and her left side felt weak, thats when I noticed her lip drooping on the left side. In the agonising 45 minute wait for an ambulance she deteriorated to the point she couldn't move or speak and at one point I honestly thought we had lost her.

We were taken to Blackpool Vic where they placed her into an induced coma and a CT scan confirmed a large bleed on the brain and blood clot. She was rushed to Royal Preston Hospital for emergency surgery on her brain, she was in theatre for over 5 hours to remove the clot and drain the bleed and taken to Critical Care. After a very scary 2 days the pressure in her skull was too much so she was rushed to theatre again for an emergency craniectomy, part of her skull was removed to give her brain room to swell.

2 attempts were made to wake her from the coma but she had setbacks that meant they had to increase the sedation but on day 9 all sedation was turned off and she gradually awoke from the coma. There were more setbacks, she had a Tracheotomy as she couldn't breathe on her own, cough or swallow and had several apneic episodes. But she has slowly improved, communicating first by tapping her fingers etc, then mouthing words, followed by writing on a whiteboard, she can briefly speak when the tracheostomy tubes are capped during physio.

We've got a very long road ahead of us, Emma has limited movement on her left side, but the consultants and physios are confident this will improve over time and she will need another surgery to replace part of her skull, but we're definitely on the right track. The next step is getting the tracheostomy tubes removed so she can start speaking properly, drinking and eating then onto her rehabilitation.

Today, day 27, she has finally been moved off Critical Care onto a Neurology ward which feels like a huge milestone. I've been waiting for this day to admit that the best thing in Preston isn't infact the M55 back to Blackpool like I have always thought, but Royal Preston Hospital and the incredible Surgeons, Consultants, Nurses and other staff that have saved Emma's life and have kept her alive for the last 27 days 🧡
 
So sorry to read you’ve been through this. Sending love and strength to you, Emma and your family.
 
The RPH saved my dad’s life removing a pituitary tumour and saved my daughters hand. Their neuro surgeons are brilliant.
What a nightmare for you all ! Wishing you and your family all the best and Emma a full and speedy recovery .
 
Phenomenal hospital.
I had a minor op that went very wrong at a Manchester hospital by a butcher who was subsequently struck off, and Preston pretty much stopped it getting any worse and have (alongside Chorley where they send people) taken the time to actually try and find a solution. I can’t praise them enough.
I hope your wife continues to make good progress.
 
Just to add my best wishes to you and family also. That must have been terrifying, but glad to hear your partner is on the road to recovery.
Surgeons are absolutely worth their weight in gold, I have total admiration for what they do.
 
No, you plonkers, not the football team, the hospital.....

On Boxing Day our lives suddenly changed, at the age of 34, Emma, my partner of 10 years and mother of our 2 young children suffered a brain hemorrhage and stroke at home in South Shore.

One minute she was absolutely fine, we had been putting the kids toys away and were preparing for some family and friends to come round to watch the match. Out of nowhere she said she didn't feel right, she was hot, had a headache and felt sick. I managed to help her from the bathroom to the bed, she felt like she was going to collapse and her left side felt weak, thats when I noticed her lip drooping on the left side. In the agonising 45 minute wait for an ambulance she deteriorated to the point she couldn't move or speak and at one point I honestly thought we had lost her.

We were taken to Blackpool Vic where they placed her into an induced coma and a CT scan confirmed a large bleed on the brain and blood clot. She was rushed to Royal Preston Hospital for emergency surgery on her brain, she was in theatre for over 5 hours to remove the clot and drain the bleed and taken to Critical Care. After a very scary 2 days the pressure in her skull was too much so she was rushed to theatre again for an emergency craniectomy, part of her skull was removed to give her brain room to swell.

2 attempts were made to wake her from the coma but she had setbacks that meant they had to increase the sedation but on day 9 all sedation was turned off and she gradually awoke from the coma. There were more setbacks, she had a Tracheotomy as she couldn't breathe on her own, cough or swallow and had several apneic episodes. But she has slowly improved, communicating first by tapping her fingers etc, then mouthing words, followed by writing on a whiteboard, she can briefly speak when the tracheostomy tubes are capped during physio.

We've got a very long road ahead of us, Emma has limited movement on her left side, but the consultants and physios are confident this will improve over time and she will need another surgery to replace part of her skull, but we're definitely on the right track. The next step is getting the tracheostomy tubes removed so she can start speaking properly, drinking and eating then onto her rehabilitation.

Today, day 27, she has finally been moved off Critical Care onto a Neurology ward which feels like a huge milestone. I've been waiting for this day to admit that the best thing in Preston isn't infact the M55 back to Blackpool like I have always thought, but Royal Preston Hospital and the incredible Surgeons, Consultants, Nurses and other staff that have saved Emma's life and have kept her alive for the last 27 days 🧡
What a shock for you and your family and friends.
She's in the best place and hopefully a speedy recovery.
 
Absolutely delighted for your family especially as my father died from a cerebral brain haemorrhage when he was 57. Hoping for a good recovery for your mrs.
 
My Dad had his prostate out in Royal Preston hosp. using the robotic Da Vinci machine to assist.
Just before Covid started.
Very impressive. Only a few hospitals in the U.K. have that technology
 
I am so pleased to hear the positive news about your partner, HS; it must have been traumatic for the whole family.

It’s great to hear some positive feedback about the NHS; you should submit something to the Care Quality Commission online.

What I would say, is that the stabilising action that the Vic took helped to shape the case management from the onset and that should be recognised too.

All the best to your family on the pathway to recovery.
 
My father has had 3 major cancer ops there in the last 12 months and I had to have a toe removed in november all the staff in all the wards weve been in arr brilliant. Hope hour young lady recovers. Stay strong gor her and the rest of your family my thoughts are with you all best wishes
 
No, you plonkers, not the football team, the hospital.....

On Boxing Day our lives suddenly changed, at the age of 34, Emma, my partner of 10 years and mother of our 2 young children suffered a brain hemorrhage and stroke at home in South Shore.

One minute she was absolutely fine, we had been putting the kids toys away and were preparing for some family and friends to come round to watch the match. Out of nowhere she said she didn't feel right, she was hot, had a headache and felt sick. I managed to help her from the bathroom to the bed, she felt like she was going to collapse and her left side felt weak, thats when I noticed her lip drooping on the left side. In the agonising 45 minute wait for an ambulance she deteriorated to the point she couldn't move or speak and at one point I honestly thought we had lost her.

We were taken to Blackpool Vic where they placed her into an induced coma and a CT scan confirmed a large bleed on the brain and blood clot. She was rushed to Royal Preston Hospital for emergency surgery on her brain, she was in theatre for over 5 hours to remove the clot and drain the bleed and taken to Critical Care. After a very scary 2 days the pressure in her skull was too much so she was rushed to theatre again for an emergency craniectomy, part of her skull was removed to give her brain room to swell.

2 attempts were made to wake her from the coma but she had setbacks that meant they had to increase the sedation but on day 9 all sedation was turned off and she gradually awoke from the coma. There were more setbacks, she had a Tracheotomy as she couldn't breathe on her own, cough or swallow and had several apneic episodes. But she has slowly improved, communicating first by tapping her fingers etc, then mouthing words, followed by writing on a whiteboard, she can briefly speak when the tracheostomy tubes are capped during physio.

We've got a very long road ahead of us, Emma has limited movement on her left side, but the consultants and physios are confident this will improve over time and she will need another surgery to replace part of her skull, but we're definitely on the right track. The next step is getting the tracheostomy tubes removed so she can start speaking properly, drinking and eating then onto her rehabilitation.

Today, day 27, she has finally been moved off Critical Care onto a Neurology ward which feels like a huge milestone. I've been waiting for this day to admit that the best thing in Preston isn't infact the M55 back to Blackpool like I have always thought, but Royal Preston Hospital and the incredible Surgeons, Consultants, Nurses and other staff that have saved Emma's life and have kept her alive for the last 27 days 🧡
Already knew about some of this this Mark from updates from you on the wink wink forum. 🤫

Fantastic news she’s now well on the road to recovery and long may it continue. ❤️
 
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Sorry to read this. Just glad you were with her at the time so that she could get help as quickly as possible.

Glad to see she is gradually on the mend. Puts everything into perspective. Preston isn't all bad after all 😉
 
If I collapse Mrs Lytham is under strict instructions to not wait for an ambulance but bundle me in the boot and take me to Royal Preston.

Much less risky than waiting to go to BVH.

This isn't a joke.
Tried to kill me a few times, a medical lawyer friend wore an SOS talisman necklace with ‘under no circumstances take me to BVH’ inside.
 
Must have been such a shock for you and your family. Relieved to hear she’s on the mend and I pray she makes a complete full recovery. You must have been scared shitless.
My father in law had a brain haemorrhage and sadly RPH couldnt save him
Best wishes to you all for the future. 💕💕💕💕
 
We should all remember that life can change in a matter of seconds.
It's fantastic news that HS's partner has been given a second chance, thanks to the skills of the underpaid consultants at RPH. Consultants can never be paid enough for the miracles they perform.
Good luck & good health for the future HS.
 
No, you plonkers, not the football team, the hospital.....

On Boxing Day our lives suddenly changed, at the age of 34, Emma, my partner of 10 years and mother of our 2 young children suffered a brain hemorrhage and stroke at home in South Shore.

One minute she was absolutely fine, we had been putting the kids toys away and were preparing for some family and friends to come round to watch the match. Out of nowhere she said she didn't feel right, she was hot, had a headache and felt sick. I managed to help her from the bathroom to the bed, she felt like she was going to collapse and her left side felt weak, thats when I noticed her lip drooping on the left side. In the agonising 45 minute wait for an ambulance she deteriorated to the point she couldn't move or speak and at one point I honestly thought we had lost her.

We were taken to Blackpool Vic where they placed her into an induced coma and a CT scan confirmed a large bleed on the brain and blood clot. She was rushed to Royal Preston Hospital for emergency surgery on her brain, she was in theatre for over 5 hours to remove the clot and drain the bleed and taken to Critical Care. After a very scary 2 days the pressure in her skull was too much so she was rushed to theatre again for an emergency craniectomy, part of her skull was removed to give her brain room to swell.

2 attempts were made to wake her from the coma but she had setbacks that meant they had to increase the sedation but on day 9 all sedation was turned off and she gradually awoke from the coma. There were more setbacks, she had a Tracheotomy as she couldn't breathe on her own, cough or swallow and had several apneic episodes. But she has slowly improved, communicating first by tapping her fingers etc, then mouthing words, followed by writing on a whiteboard, she can briefly speak when the tracheostomy tubes are capped during physio.

We've got a very long road ahead of us, Emma has limited movement on her left side, but the consultants and physios are confident this will improve over time and she will need another surgery to replace part of her skull, but we're definitely on the right track. The next step is getting the tracheostomy tubes removed so she can start speaking properly, drinking and eating then onto her rehabilitation.

Today, day 27, she has finally been moved off Critical Care onto a Neurology ward which feels like a huge milestone. I've been waiting for this day to admit that the best thing in Preston isn't infact the M55 back to Blackpool like I have always thought, but Royal Preston Hospital and the incredible Surgeons, Consultants, Nurses and other staff that have saved Emma's life and have kept her alive for the last 27 days 🧡
Put's our whinging about various players & formations right at the bottom of what's important in life. I can't imagine the hell you have been going through & still are to a slightly lesser extent. I'm sure everyone is rooting for her. Stay strong. 🧡
 
Great to hear she’s picking up a bit mate 👍🏼 Saw your mum in The Corner Flag last Saturday, hope she passed on mine and AG’s well wishes 🧡 🍊🧡🍊🧡🍊
 
Yes its a good Hospital, I go every 3 month's to see the specialist and see the support worker every month.
 
I really hope you and Emma get through this and that you and she and your family have a terrific and long life together.
 
I lost my beloved mum to a tumour that bled on the brain so I understand the severity of the situation, I'm so very pleased they caught it in time.
My very Best Wishes go to you and you're partner and Thank you Preston Royal Hospital,football rivalries mean shit compared to human life.
 
Good luck Emma. Keep fighting and best wishes in your recovery.

Good luck to you all and keep those kids spirits up 👍👍
 
Best wishes to you all Highfield - sounds horrendous. No doubt your quick actions helped as well - wishing Emma a speedy recovery. These doctors and nurses are fantastic x
 
No, you plonkers, not the football team, the hospital.....

On Boxing Day our lives suddenly changed, at the age of 34, Emma, my partner of 10 years and mother of our 2 young children suffered a brain hemorrhage and stroke at home in South Shore.

One minute she was absolutely fine, we had been putting the kids toys away and were preparing for some family and friends to come round to watch the match. Out of nowhere she said she didn't feel right, she was hot, had a headache and felt sick. I managed to help her from the bathroom to the bed, she felt like she was going to collapse and her left side felt weak, thats when I noticed her lip drooping on the left side. In the agonising 45 minute wait for an ambulance she deteriorated to the point she couldn't move or speak and at one point I honestly thought we had lost her.

We were taken to Blackpool Vic where they placed her into an induced coma and a CT scan confirmed a large bleed on the brain and blood clot. She was rushed to Royal Preston Hospital for emergency surgery on her brain, she was in theatre for over 5 hours to remove the clot and drain the bleed and taken to Critical Care. After a very scary 2 days the pressure in her skull was too much so she was rushed to theatre again for an emergency craniectomy, part of her skull was removed to give her brain room to swell.

2 attempts were made to wake her from the coma but she had setbacks that meant they had to increase the sedation but on day 9 all sedation was turned off and she gradually awoke from the coma. There were more setbacks, she had a Tracheotomy as she couldn't breathe on her own, cough or swallow and had several apneic episodes. But she has slowly improved, communicating first by tapping her fingers etc, then mouthing words, followed by writing on a whiteboard, she can briefly speak when the tracheostomy tubes are capped during physio.

We've got a very long road ahead of us, Emma has limited movement on her left side, but the consultants and physios are confident this will improve over time and she will need another surgery to replace part of her skull, but we're definitely on the right track. The next step is getting the tracheostomy tubes removed so she can start speaking properly, drinking and eating then onto her rehabilitation.

Today, day 27, she has finally been moved off Critical Care onto a Neurology ward which feels like a huge milestone. I've been waiting for this day to admit that the best thing in Preston isn't infact the M55 back to Blackpool like I have always thought, but Royal Preston Hospital and the incredible Surgeons, Consultants, Nurses and other staff that have saved Emma's life and have kept her alive for the last 27 days 🧡
My heart goes out to you and your family. My youngest daughter is just completing her nursing degree at Preston, has worked in critical care, and my brother was in there last year. I know what valuable work they do there.

STAY STRONG !!!!!!!
 
Only just read your o/p

You and Emma must have be to Hell and back.

Your both in my thoughts and prayers that she makes a full recovery.

Stay strong “fellow Seasider”
And YES, it’s a great hospital and credit to the NHS and the town.

Somethings make football nearly irrelevant at times, what you and your family have gone through and still dealing with proves that.

All the very best to you & Emma from me, my partner and my family. 🧡x
 
Only just read this too- all the best to you and your family and hope Emma makes a full recovery.
I spent a week in Royal Preston and couldn’t fault the staff and nurses there.
 
I'm only just reading this. What an unbelievably difficult time for you and your family but of course most of all your wife.
It sounds like the worst might be over so 🤞.
I don't think I know you so I'm just another one of your tangerine family but I'll make sure I follow your story.
All the very best and send my love to your wife. ♥️
 
Wow, that is some story. Hopefully she is young enough to make a complete recovery although it will take some time. She needs all her strength and yours which you are giving her.

Keep fighting, keep her fighting and don't give up. Hopefully a full recovery is on the cards. Good luck to you all.
 
No, you plonkers, not the football team, the hospital.....

On Boxing Day our lives suddenly changed, at the age of 34, Emma, my partner of 10 years and mother of our 2 young children suffered a brain hemorrhage and stroke at home in South Shore.

One minute she was absolutely fine, we had been putting the kids toys away and were preparing for some family and friends to come round to watch the match. Out of nowhere she said she didn't feel right, she was hot, had a headache and felt sick. I managed to help her from the bathroom to the bed, she felt like she was going to collapse and her left side felt weak, thats when I noticed her lip drooping on the left side. In the agonising 45 minute wait for an ambulance she deteriorated to the point she couldn't move or speak and at one point I honestly thought we had lost her.

We were taken to Blackpool Vic where they placed her into an induced coma and a CT scan confirmed a large bleed on the brain and blood clot. She was rushed to Royal Preston Hospital for emergency surgery on her brain, she was in theatre for over 5 hours to remove the clot and drain the bleed and taken to Critical Care. After a very scary 2 days the pressure in her skull was too much so she was rushed to theatre again for an emergency craniectomy, part of her skull was removed to give her brain room to swell.

2 attempts were made to wake her from the coma but she had setbacks that meant they had to increase the sedation but on day 9 all sedation was turned off and she gradually awoke from the coma. There were more setbacks, she had a Tracheotomy as she couldn't breathe on her own, cough or swallow and had several apneic episodes. But she has slowly improved, communicating first by tapping her fingers etc, then mouthing words, followed by writing on a whiteboard, she can briefly speak when the tracheostomy tubes are capped during physio.

We've got a very long road ahead of us, Emma has limited movement on her left side, but the consultants and physios are confident this will improve over time and she will need another surgery to replace part of her skull, but we're definitely on the right track. The next step is getting the tracheostomy tubes removed so she can start speaking properly, drinking and eating then onto her rehabilitation.

Today, day 27, she has finally been moved off Critical Care onto a Neurology ward which feels like a huge milestone. I've been waiting for this day to admit that the best thing in Preston isn't infact the M55 back to Blackpool like I have always thought, but Royal Preston Hospital and the incredible Surgeons, Consultants, Nurses and other staff that have saved Emma's life and have kept her alive for the last 27 days 🧡
Wow what a story. Best wishes to Emma and all of your family Highfield. I truly hope she is able to fully recover and get back to a normal family life. Well done to the Royal Preston as well.
 
I spent the first 25 years of my life, growing up in a house a stones throw away from RPH. My Dad developed a tumour on his brain when I was 1 and he was subsequently given very little chance of survival. He went on to live another ten years...and i got to know him and make some memories. All thanks to the brilliant surgeons and medical staff at RPH. My wife works there, so I know first hand, how hard they work and how seriously they take their duty of care.

I am very happy Emma is on the road to recovery and wish you both and your children get back to some sort of normality at the earliest opportunity. All the best.
 
The NHS is one of, if not the best thing in the modern UK and it must be protected at all costs. I'm so sorry to hear the ordeal you and your family must have been and still going through. Hopefully that light at the end of the tunnel is getting closer and your good wife is on the road to recovery. All the very best. 🧡
 
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