SEASIDE2020
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Yes, it's not like anyone referred to his frizzy hair, is it?
Is that the best you can do ?
As far as I know, Akinfenwa doesn't have frizzy hair, not that I'd be bothered either way.
Yes, it's not like anyone referred to his frizzy hair, is it?
Is that the best you can do ?
As far as I know, Akinfenwa doesn't have frizzy hair, not that I'd be bothered either way.
If you call someone a buffalo in parts of Asia it means you think they're thick/stupid, as the buffalo is seen as a very stupid animal. I don't know if it was meant as that in the remark about Akinfenwa. I would suspect it was made because of his size, as the buffalo is also a huge animal as well as being stupid.Fair enough. However, I still want to know why water buffalo? It's very low on my list of possibilities if I'm considering an insult. It's that that makes me think there's more to it than standard insulting, where surely you'd go for the straightforward fat **, or variant thereon. No issue with perception then.
If you call someone a buffalo in parts of Asia it means you think they're thick/stupid, as the buffalo is seen as a very stupid animal. I don't know if it was meant as that in the remark about Akinfenwa. I would suspect it was made because of his size, as the buffalo is also a huge animal as well as being stupid.
It's certainly not an endearing term that's for sure and it's quite insulting. But racist? I'm not sure on that one.
Only the person who made the remark knows why they chose to describe him as a buffalo.
I knew you'd deliberately miss the point. I think it says it all about you and your fellow-travellers on this thread that a man is subject to repeated derogatory comments by a member of the club's staff and all you can talk about is whether he should have a bit more of a stiff upper lip about it.
I thought being an educated man Bazbob you would have surely said replying at “such speed” would have meant me replying yesterday when the thread was posted not 24 hours on.I wonder if it was any other club whether you would be racing at such speed to their defence.
Genuinely nothing to do with Fleetwood. There is a proportion of our readership who are desperate to challenge every aspect of black equality while denying they are doing it. That's why they will literally argue black is white.Would there be so many snowflakes up in arms on this non-issue, if it was an official from say clubs like Southend or Peterboro who had called him a water buffalo?
And some pretend that Fleetwood aren't real rivals?
6 pages already
I'm amazed that someone on the Fleetwood bench even knew what a water buffalo is, never mind the nuances of it as an insult. Agree with you about the intent.
And I'm the snowflake?I imagine you spoke in jest but I am surprised that you appear to consider it fine to make an obvious inference about the lack of intelligence of those associated with Fleetwood Football Club yet at the same time you are annoyed at the comments made to Akinfenwa.
Surely prejudice is wrong full stop ?
Over two hundred on the Wycombe v Cod’s match threads and a ton already in the bag on a water Buffalo thread.Genuinely nothing to do with Fleetwood. There is a proportion of our readership who are desperate to challenge ever of black equality while denying they are doing it. That's why they will literally argue black is white.
I didn't miss any point, there wasn't any point.
As for your latest response regarding derogatory comments, derogatory comments have been made on the sporting pitches across our green and pleasant land forever and a day and they will continue to be made despite your outrage.
As many others have suggested on this thread, Akinfenwa seems a nice chap but it's questionable whether his reaction would have been the same if the same had happened six months ago.
Much ado about nothing but please don't let me spoil your fun.
I refer you to my opening line.Over two hundred on the Wycombe v Cod’s match threads and a ton in the making on a water Buffalo thread.
And we’re not supposed to give a shit about a pub team up the road.
Genuinely nothing to do with Fleetwood. There is a proportion of our readership who are desperate to challenge every aspect of black equality while denying they are doing it. That's why they will literally argue black is white.
Let's be clear about this. I haven't I introduced anything. I made it clear it was an unusual line of attack and a surprising analogy. I also said that only the person saying it would know if it was meant as a racially offensive term.Wiz
Perhaps a proportion of our readership black are just fed up at likes of yourself trying to introduce a racist angle to everything.
Seriously Fleetwood or not this whole thing has massively been taken much too far, a water Buffalo FFS hopefully the EFL/FA will just dismiss it.Let's be clear about this. I haven't I introduced anything. I made it clear it was an unusual line of attack and a surprising analogy. I also said that only the person saying it would know if it was meant as a racially offensive term.
I'm not surprised by those who suddenly have an in-depth knowledge of how the use of water buffalo is not a racist term. As always the depth of knowledge of the AVFTT readership knows no bounds.
Just because derogatory comments have happened for ever and a day at sports fields across the land doesn't mean its ok. If things aren't challenged then they will never change and that's what he was doing, challenging behaviour that was wrong.
Let's be clear about this. I haven't I introduced anything. I made it clear it was an unusual line of attack and a surprising analogy. I also said that only the person saying it would know if it was meant as a racially offensive term.
I'm not surprised by those who suddenly have an in-depth knowledge of how the use of water buffalo is not a racist term. As always the depth of knowledge of the AVFTT readership knows no bounds.
Seriously Fleetwood or not this whole thing has massively been taken much too far, a water Buffalo FFS hopefully the EFL/FA will just dismiss it.
There’s more important things to worry about like why 8 Formula one drivers didn’t take the knee in Austria and pissed Lewis Hamilton off.
Just to be clear, that's a Cape buffalo, not a water buffaloJust seen someone point this out on twitter. He posted this to his twitter account in February
Of course I can. If AA perceived being called a water buffalo as racist then I find that a bit sad. No mention of his colour there. People call other people all sorts of names and have done for centuries. Are we now so woke that we seem to have to perceive everything as a racist attack. If this is the case then we might as well be robots and not talk to each other. Bants is officially dead.It's not what you see, it's what he perceives. You don't seem to be able to get your head round that.
Bants being officially dead is probably a good thing.Of course I can. If AA perceived being called a water buffalo as racist then I find that a bit sad. No mention of his colour there. People call other people all sorts of names and have done for centuries. Are we now so woke that we seem to have to perceive everything as a racist attack. If this is the case then we might as well be robots and not talk to each other. Bants is officially dead.
To be honest I really can’t see that happening. Especially in my friends group.Bants being officially dead is probably a good thing.
I'm so tired of reading middle aged white blokes decide what is and isn't hurtful. Just shut up and listen.
I'm sick and tired of young snowflakes that have to make an issue out of anything and everything at the drop of a hat, just shut up!!
I fully appreciate what Akinfenwa was trying to get across and tbh it was put more reasonable and eloquently unlike other attempts.Very very clever and well reasoned response, touché.
‘at the drop of a hat’ = specifically when somebody I respect asks us as a community to reflect on an issue they say is hurting them solely because it goes unchecked. You are making heavy assumptions about my politics - it’s just that I was brought up to listen and be willing to change my behavior if somebody says I’ve hurt them. Akinfenwa is not on a witch hunt, he is leaving room to believe it was unintentional, all he is saying is that just because it is unintentional does not make it harmless and just think about your actions.
If a black person cannot politely ask a community not to use a derogatory term any more, and grants that they may not have previously known about the negative connotations, therein lies the nature of systemic racism. It’s not about making a big drama of it or calling for anybody’s head, it’s just asking people to educate themselves on the language used.
If anything seems over sensitive to me, it’s a group of fully grown men getting upset that they cannot use a word they claim they didn’t even know about until a day ago. What’s the big loss?
I understand and share concerns about throwing the baby out with the bath water when it comes to free speech in politics and broadcasting. This is the exact approach that circumvents that nonsense and allows us a chance to opt for reflection and self education instead of blanket censorship.
Beautifully put Alf........Very very clever and well reasoned response, touché.
‘at the drop of a hat’ = specifically when somebody I respect asks us as a community to reflect on an issue they say is hurting them solely because it goes unchecked. You are making heavy assumptions about my politics - it’s just that I was brought up to listen and be willing to change my behavior if somebody says I’ve hurt them. Akinfenwa is not on a witch hunt, he is leaving room to believe it was unintentional, all he is saying is that just because it is unintentional does not make it harmless and just think about your actions.
If a black person cannot politely ask a community not to use a derogatory term any more, and grants that they may not have previously known about the negative connotations, therein lies the nature of systemic racism. It’s not about making a big drama of it or calling for anybody’s head, it’s just asking people to educate themselves on the language used.
If anything seems over sensitive to me, it’s a group of fully grown men getting upset that they cannot use a word they claim they didn’t even know about until a day ago. What’s the big loss?
I understand and share concerns about throwing the baby out with the bath water when it comes to free speech in politics and broadcasting. This is the exact approach that circumvents that nonsense and allows us a chance to opt for reflection and self education instead of blanket censorship.
But Alf seems to be missing the point that Akinfenwa back in February used a picture of a buffalo to describe himself.Beautifully put Alf........
But Alf seems to be missing the point that Akinfenwa back in February used a picture of a buffalo to describe himself.
No I didn't. Someone from Fleetwood used a derogatory term, Akinfenwa himself used a "derogatory" picture to portray himself.Whilst you may have overlooked the word ‘derogatory’
Anyone can describe themselves as anything. That's self deprecating. Someone else saying it is derogatory and insulting. Big difference.No I didn't. Someone from Fleetwood used a derogatory term, Akinfenwa himself used a derogatory picture to portray himself.
Yeah, I get that but he didn't help his cause by doing it did he? I'd like to hear what his thoughts were when he posted his first tweet. And just to re-iterate I initially thought it was racism and it still is.Anyone can describe themselves as anything. That's self deprecating. Someone else saying it is derogatory and insulting. Big difference.
I fully appreciate what Akinfenwa was trying to get across and tbh it was put more reasonable and eloquently unlike other attempts.
The thing I'm sick and tired about is now that the communist group BLM is getting up a head of steam, all the do gooders who haven't looked closely at their statement and have jumped onto the bandwagon are not supporting the real cause, just like the Premier league and Sky in general, they think it's about racism but it isn't.
Until George Floyd was murdered there were 100,000's of black people who didn't give a toss about statues and sculptures then they're at demos pulling the statues down!!
It was very finely veiled as a blow against slavery and 1000's thought it was BLM know different.
Instead of the slogan Black lives matter why not use the slogan RACISM IS WRONG.
THAT is what the majority of people agree with but wouldn't fit in with the BLM mantra.
I think any type of racism is abhorrent, what I don't agree with is pulling out the race card when there is no need to use it whatsoever. I also don't agree with getting jobs because of the colour of your skin either, then again may I add sexuality, age, gender, etc a job should be given for said persons ability.
So there you go kid, a bit of a moan off an old white bloke. If you haven't got an open mind to accept what I've posted then we'll never get anywhere. I still think people need to read more into situations befor jumping on bandwagon though!
Yes, I agree with that. A stupid remark. Possibly one spouted on the point of defeat but it doesn't mean it's defendable.
Unbelievable that some do not see a distinction between AA posting a picture of a buffalo and an opposition professional repeatedly using it to refer to him throughout the game. If he said "I'm strong as a gorilla" and the next day somebody called him a monkey, that person would still massively be in the wrong.
I imagine you are the same people who say 'well why can't I use the n-word if 50 cent does?'
20s 'he didn't help his cause by doing it did he?' when he posted the picture I'm sure he wasn't expecting to be referred to as a fat buffalo repeatedly in one of the biggest games of his life six months later. I respect your points most of the time mate, as I assume you mostly like to play devil's advocate given that you always take an extreme side in every single debate on here, but that is *weak*.
Yeh okSorry mate apart from the bit where you said you fully appreciate what Akinfenwa said, the rest of that is a massive tangent and nothing to do with what I said.
Don't call me kid please, thanks.
I think you're allowed to look at them....I don't think there are any problems with doing that.What a joke! Getting ridiculous this now, we won't be able to look at a black person soon.
Again, I think you are blatantly using obvious racist words to over emphasise your point. Stick to the words used eh. I tend to see it from Peels pov with regards to his first para. And as I say my initial thought was to think it racist and it still is. But like I said I don't believe he did his cause any good by his earlier tweet and so to a certain degree there is a bit of hypocrisy from him. Again, that said he has to be applauded for the way he has brought this to the medias attention and his aim of trying not to confront head on but openly discuss the matter in a calm manner.Unbelievable that some do not see a distinction between AA posting a picture of a buffalo and an opposition professional repeatedly using it to refer to him throughout the game. If he said "I'm strong as a gorilla" and the next day somebody called him a monkey, that person would still massively be in the wrong.
I imagine you are the same people who say 'well why can't I use the n-word if 50 cent does?'
20s 'he didn't help his cause by doing it did he?' when he posted the picture I'm sure he wasn't expecting to be referred to as a fat buffalo repeatedly in one of the biggest games of his life six months later. I respect your points most of the time mate, as I assume you mostly like to play devil's advocate given that you always take an extreme side in every single debate on here, but that is *weak*.