Lost Seasider
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I have no problem disagreeing with me, but I do have a big problem with people who presume to tell me what I think or try to twist my words out of context.
Whatever Clyde.
I have no problem disagreeing with me, but I do have a big problem with people who presume to tell me what I think or try to twist my words out of context.
Have I broken the 'laws of the land' then?The problem with you hangman, you struggle to abide by the laws of the land. Off with your head the Queen should be saying to you.
That's been pretty apparent from the outset..... Why don't you just make up what I'm saying and then have a two day long debate with yourself about it?Well to be honest I've no idea what point you're trying to make, and since you think anyone who disagrees with you is a clown who can f*** off I really don't think it's worth the effort trying to work it out.
Also Greenwood saying “stop talking to me” and “stop pushing me” probably means she was trying to get a reaction on record from him.
I feel the same.Completely disheartened reading this thread. No wonder women are so scared to come out when they are victims. Some shameful attitudes in here, bit those is up there with the worst of them.
Quite aside from the awful misquoting, it's a pretty horrible of how we blame victims.
It equates to, " she was talking" or "she was pushing him" so she deserved what she got.
How anyone can listen to that recording and, without being his solicitor, look to defend Greenwood awful
Yeah because that’s what I said isn’t it.Completely disheartened reading this thread. No wonder women are so scared to come out when they are victims. Some shameful attitudes in here, bit those is up there with the worst of them.
Quite aside from the awful misquoting, it's a pretty horrible of how we blame victims.
It equates to, " she was talking" or "she was pushing him" so she deserved what she got.
How anyone can listen to that recording and, without being his solicitor, look to defend Greenwood awful
In fairness, we have far more than the first clue, we have photographic evidence of an injury and an audio recording.As is so often the case on this board the experts have all had their say. Nobody has the first clue yet. Let’s all take a chill pill and wait and see what comes Out. I’ll bet you it won’t be quick.
That's been pretty apparent from the outset..... Why don't you just make up what I'm saying and then have a two day long debate with yourself about it?
Completely disheartened reading this thread. No wonder women are so scared to come out when they are victims. Some shameful attitudes in here, bit those is up there with the worst of them.
Quite aside from the awful misquoting, it's a pretty horrible of how we blame victims.
It equates to, " she was talking" or "she was pushing him" so she deserved what she got.
How anyone can listen to that recording and, without being his solicitor, look to defend Greenwood awful
That's a bit rich when compared to your attitude towards Virginia Guiffre which would have seen her ' tarred and feathered ' by now by the Court of Lost SeasiderBy the same token, let's not convict the accused in the court of public opinion until he's had a trial, I don't think at this stage he's even been charged yet.
That's a bit rich when compared to your attitude towards Virginia Guiffre which would have seen her ' tarred and feathered ' by now by the Court of Lost Seasider
She didn’t report it to the police. And blackmail or extortion is hardly feasible when you’ve already outed them on social media.I've highlighted the key word for you.
Is it beyond the bounds of possibility that somebody might attempt to entrap a multi-millionaire footballer for the purpose of extortion? Is it possible that the entrapment might entail allegations of sexual violence?
A simple yes/no will suffice.
She didn’t report it to the police. And blackmail or extortion is hardly feasible when you’ve already outed them on social media.
I don’t think money is a motive however this pans out.I'm not saying it's likely, let's make that clear, but it is a small possibility and that's the reason why we shouldn't rush to judgement before he's even charged.
It's possible that such a person might think they can sue for damages and maybe thinks the player will settle for £1,000,000+ just to get rid of them. It might not be the brightest idea ever, but then the sort of person who might try such a thing probably isn't the sharpest tool in the box to start with.
To repeat, I'm not saying I think this is what happened, but there are reasons why we have courts and trials rather than the mob justice that some seem to favour.
Or got a brilliant impersonator to mimic his voice and say sexually aggressive things to her. Oh and get a voice recording of all this on her phone.Be very interesting to hear how or why she bust her own lip
I don’t think money is a motive however this pans out.
From the opposite perspective I think it’s unbelievably hard to understand the shame and guilt a victim would feel in revealing this kind of thing. It’s not the kind of thing she would have a ‘managed approach ‘ to, and she will probably be aware it makes some people feel uncomfortable. So, if the means and mode of the exposure appeared more chaotic and impulsive that’s possibly why.
And as Bifster says people rarely want to know or believe this kind of stuff which would add to her reticence and very misplaced shame.
She‘s been with him 3 years or so. I still don’t for one minute think she’s just realised now she could make a bob or two.I'm not saying I think it's at all likely in this case, I rather suspect Mr Greenwood has played his last game as a professional footballer, at least in this country.
But.
When you see the sums of money being bandied around in the PA case, and the amounts being paid to and for PL footballers, it's not out of the realms of possibility that someone might hit on the idea.
To repeat I'm not saying I think this is what happened, I am just questioning the certainty that some posters have over his guilt.
Yes i know, but in fairness until the actual facts are revealed its all a bit he said she said isn't it.In fairness, we have far more than the first clue, we have photographic evidence of an injury and an audio recording.
No it’s not “he said she said” at all… There’s rather damning evidence to support the allegation… That’s the point…Yes i know, but in fairness until the actual facts are revealed its all a bit he said she said isn't it.
She‘s been with him 3 years or so. I still don’t for one minute think she’s just realised now she could make a bob or two.
For all those who have assumed some level of gullt there appears to be an almost equal number prepared to assume some level of guilt at her.
Doubt is putlting guilt on her though lost. It assumes she has lied and has made false allegations of a crime.That certainly makes things look worse for him, but who knows for sure.
Doubt is not the same as guilt, and I'm assuming nothing, I simply want to wait until we've seen all of the evidence before reaching a conclusion.
The problem is that since I've been responding to people who are certain that Greenwood is guilty, and who are certain that everything VG is true, it is very difficult to try to encourage them to keep an open mind without appearing to attack the victim or claimants (it being for the courts to decide which they are).
Doubt is putlting guilt on her though lost. It assumes she has lied and has made false allegations of a crime.
Probably just me, but isn’t there something a tad ironic about Boris’s number one defender using this argumentIt assumes nothing, it simply acknowledges the possibility that she might have lied.
Yes, I've seen the pictures of her bleeding, and heard the audio. As far as i know i haven't seen footage of him attacking her or actual footage of him forcing himself on her that matches the audio. I agree the evidence is pretty damming if true and if proven to be the case the guy should feel the full force of the law. But lets just see.No it’s not “he said she said” at all… There’s rather damning evidence to support the allegation… That’s the point…
Your complete and utter lack of self-awareness is astonishingThat certainly makes things look worse for him, but who knows for sure.
Doubt is not the same as guilt, and I'm assuming nothing, I simply want to wait until we've seen all of the evidence before reaching a conclusion.
The problem is that since I've been responding to people who are certain that Greenwood is guilty, and who are certain that everything VG is true, it is very difficult to try to encourage them to keep an open mind without appearing to attack the victim or claimants (it being for the courts to decide which they are).
Your complete and utter lack of self-awareness is astonishing
Some of the comments bud are proper disgusting. Shameful and embarrassing.Completely disheartened reading this thread. No wonder women are so scared to come out when they are victims. Some shameful attitudes in here, bit those is up there with the worst of them.
Quite aside from the awful misquoting, it's a pretty horrible of how we blame victims.
It equates to, " she was talking" or "she was pushing him" so she deserved what she got.
How anyone can listen to that recording and, without being his solicitor, look to defend Greenwood awful
Why do we have to see?Yes, I've seen the pictures of her bleeding, and heard the audio. As far as i know i haven't seen footage of him attacking her or actual footage of him forcing himself on her that matches the audio. I agree the evidence is pretty damming if true and if proven to be the case the guy should feel the full force of the law. But lets just see.
Whopper of the week award heading your waySave it for the birds Clyde.
Disagree.It assumes nothing, it simply acknowledges the possibility that she might have lied.
Disagree.
Whopper of the week award heading your way
I’m not hung up on it, i have formed a Personel opinion on it. As usual everyone is an expert without the actual facts.Why do we have to see?
Why can’t we form an opinion based upon what we’ve already seen and heard? We’re not sentencing him and this is not a court of law.
My view is that on the balance of probability I think he’s likely to be guilty. I prefer to give the victim (in these instances) the benefit of the doubt.
If that is demonstrated otherwise, then I can change my view, it’s not set in stone, it’s just an opinion.
I don’t get why people get so hung up about these things..
I didn’t get the impression that you thought it highly likely she was telling the truth fair do’s then.Fair enough, but I've said I think it's highly likely she's telling the truth, the rest is called doubt.
I’m not sure anyone needs to be an expert really. It’s just a discussion on a football forum and different people have different opinions.I’m not hung up on it, i have formed a Personel opinion on it. As usual everyone is an expert without the actual facts.
Are you trying to say you would strangle someone to death with your bare hands, simply for challenging your opinion ?Now you're just spamming random s***.
Clyde.
Wouldnt say it was damning evidence but evidence to be investigated. Do you believe everything on the internet, I hope not.No it’s not “he said she said” at all… There’s rather damning evidence to support the allegation… That’s the point…
I’m struggling to grasp the relationship between “believing everything on the Internet” and the comments I made.Wouldnt say it was damning evidence but evidence to be investigated. Do you believe everything on the internet, I hope not.
You’re accusing me of making my mind up without all the evidence, then you come out with thatJust the use of the word damning.
Is that a command ?Wait till they gather all the evidence, if some turns out to be damning and a guilty verdict is reached, you can then avftt hang him.
Ah OK…Yes, you are the avftt hangman.
Are you trying to say you would strangle someone to death with your bare hands, simply for challenging your opinion ?
Unbelievable….
Are you accusing me of murdering your grandparents?Surrealism now Clyde?
Are you accusing me of murdering your grandparents?