Panic attacks and anxiety disorders

TotallyTangerine said:
Hi Graves, I just noticed that you liked my post. I hope you and your family are enjoying life in Athens, I bet it’s hot though! I’m rather intrigued to know if you speak Greek?
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Hello and cheers to you TotallyTangerine, we are doing well, Mrs is in her third trimester now. It is certainly hot at the moment! Greece is having one of its unfortunate wildlife seasons. I do speak yes, have you been?
 
Graves said:
Hello and cheers to you TotallyTangerine, we are doing well, Mrs is in her third trimester now. It is certainly hot at the moment! Greece is having one of its unfortunate wildlife seasons. I do speak yes, have you been?
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That’s good to hear! Well, I hope she’s not suffering too much in the interminable heat..
I love Greece, it’s people and it’s variety of islands and have been to quite a few over the years but never Athens though. Had an inkling you might speak the lingo with your penchant for language!!
 
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Last Monday at 2.55pm our fragile world fell apart, barely a year has passed since my wife’s cancer diagnosis, all the signs were positive but her scan revealed reoccurrence.... disease progression... just simple words which now consume every minute. Her cancer support team are equally surprised, surgery or radiotherapy are not options...she must endure more chemotherapy.
We draw on all our strength to push on...this is hard.
 
Newholland said:
Last Monday at 2.55pm our fragile world fell apart, barely a year has passed since my wife’s cancer diagnosis, all the signs were positive but her scan revealed reoccurrence.... disease progression... just simple words which now consume every minute. Her cancer support team are equally surprised, surgery or radiotherapy are not options...she must endure more chemotherapy.
We draw on all our strength to push on...this is hard.
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love and best wishes to you both.
 
Newholland said:
Last Monday at 2.55pm our fragile world fell apart, barely a year has passed since my wife’s cancer diagnosis, all the signs were positive but her scan revealed reoccurrence.... disease progression... just simple words which now consume every minute. Her cancer support team are equally surprised, surgery or radiotherapy are not options...she must endure more chemotherapy.
We draw on all our strength to push on...this is hard.
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Oh that’s crap news for you, your wife and your family. Sending you love and support, and you know to post anytime, even if it’s just to shout and swear ❤️
 
Newholland said:
Last Monday at 2.55pm our fragile world fell apart, barely a year has passed since my wife’s cancer diagnosis, all the signs were positive but her scan revealed reoccurrence.... disease progression... just simple words which now consume every minute. Her cancer support team are equally surprised, surgery or radiotherapy are not options...she must endure more chemotherapy.
We draw on all our strength to push on...this is hard.
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Oh no, Newholland, I’m so so sorry to hear this. I had wondered if everything was ok because I’ve been thinking about you both as I said I would and had noticed you’d been absent on the board this week.. please try and remain positive…we’re all sending you our love 🧡
 
Newholland said:
Last Monday at 2.55pm our fragile world fell apart, barely a year has passed since my wife’s cancer diagnosis, all the signs were positive but her scan revealed reoccurrence.... disease progression... just simple words which now consume every minute. Her cancer support team are equally surprised, surgery or radiotherapy are not options...she must endure more chemotherapy.
We draw on all our strength to push on...this is hard.
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It must be a very challenging time for your family. Seems like many of your fellow Seasiders are with you, wishing you and your wife well. Best wishes buddy.
 
Newholland said:
Last Monday at 2.55pm our fragile world fell apart, barely a year has passed since my wife’s cancer diagnosis, all the signs were positive but her scan revealed reoccurrence.... disease progression... just simple words which now consume every minute. Her cancer support team are equally surprised, surgery or radiotherapy are not options...she must endure more chemotherapy.
We draw on all our strength to push on...this is hard.
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That’s so sad to hear, stay strong and positive.
 
Lala said:
Oh that’s crap news for you, your wife and your family. Sending you love and support, and you know to post anytime, even if it’s just to shout and swear ❤️
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That’s very kind of you. You’ve been through tough times recently with tragic loss of your friend.... it’s strange but sometimes posting on here does help.🧡
 
Newholland said:
Last Monday at 2.55pm our fragile world fell apart, barely a year has passed since my wife’s cancer diagnosis, all the signs were positive but her scan revealed reoccurrence.... disease progression... just simple words which now consume every minute. Her cancer support team are equally surprised, surgery or radiotherapy are not options...she must endure more chemotherapy.
We draw on all our strength to push on...this is hard.
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That's shit fella, all the best pal.
 
Newholland said:
Last Monday at 2.55pm our fragile world fell apart, barely a year has passed since my wife’s cancer diagnosis, all the signs were positive but her scan revealed reoccurrence.... disease progression... just simple words which now consume every minute. Her cancer support team are equally surprised, surgery or radiotherapy are not options...she must endure more chemotherapy.
We draw on all our strength to push on...this is hard.
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My very best wishes go to you and your wife Newholland.
 
Newholland said:
Last Monday at 2.55pm our fragile world fell apart, barely a year has passed since my wife’s cancer diagnosis, all the signs were positive but her scan revealed reoccurrence.... disease progression... just simple words which now consume every minute. Her cancer support team are equally surprised, surgery or radiotherapy are not options...she must endure more chemotherapy.
We draw on all our strength to push on...this is hard.
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Sending virtual hugs, we are always here if you need to sound off. I hope for positive outcome, chemo can do wonders.
 
Newholland said:
Last Monday at 2.55pm our fragile world fell apart, barely a year has passed since my wife’s cancer diagnosis, all the signs were positive but her scan revealed reoccurrence.... disease progression... just simple words which now consume every minute. Her cancer support team are equally surprised, surgery or radiotherapy are not options...she must endure more chemotherapy.
We draw on all our strength to push on...this is hard.
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My heart goes out to you, life is beautiful and cruel. 🙏 hoping it goes to plan
 
Newholland said:
Last Monday at 2.55pm our fragile world fell apart, barely a year has passed since my wife’s cancer diagnosis, all the signs were positive but her scan revealed reoccurrence.... disease progression... just simple words which now consume every minute. Her cancer support team are equally surprised, surgery or radiotherapy are not options...she must endure more chemotherapy.
We draw on all our strength to push on...this is hard.
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Praying for you both
 
Newholland said:
Last Monday at 2.55pm our fragile world fell apart, barely a year has passed since my wife’s cancer diagnosis, all the signs were positive but her scan revealed reoccurrence.... disease progression... just simple words which now consume every minute. Her cancer support team are equally surprised, surgery or radiotherapy are not options...she must endure more chemotherapy.
We draw on all our strength to push on...this is hard.
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Ah fuck. That's awful Newholland, all the best to you and your family. Although football is pretty insignificant when it comes to this I hope the Pool give you 3 points this weekend.
 
SeasideKurt said:
Ah fuck. That's awful Newholland, all the best to you and your family. Although football is pretty insignificant when it comes to this I hope the Pool give you 3 points this weekend.
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Football does play its part for me, as does this board... a few minutes of “normality” are so important. We both still find things to laugh and smile about, keeping our minds positive 👍. Your good wishes are gratefully received.Thank you.
 
Newholland said:
Last Monday at 2.55pm our fragile world fell apart, barely a year has passed since my wife’s cancer diagnosis, all the signs were positive but her scan revealed reoccurrence.... disease progression... just simple words which now consume every minute. Her cancer support team are equally surprised, surgery or radiotherapy are not options...she must endure more chemotherapy.
We draw on all our strength to push on...this is hard.
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Fingers crossed for you and your family at this incredibly difficult time x
 
Malced said:
Fingers crossed for you and your family at this incredibly difficult time x
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That is kind of you .. cheers👍
Your post earlier up this thread made me realise I’m pretty much doing the same thing to a degree... keeping my family spirits up , using all my energy to keep things normal..whist hiding my own inner fears of the reality... building a screen to hide behind .. so I must thank you for being so honest.👏
 
Newholland said:
Last Monday at 2.55pm our fragile world fell apart, barely a year has passed since my wife’s cancer diagnosis, all the signs were positive but her scan revealed reoccurrence.... disease progression... just simple words which now consume every minute. Her cancer support team are equally surprised, surgery or radiotherapy are not options...she must endure more chemotherapy.
We draw on all our strength to push on...this is hard.
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I’m so sorry to hear that mate. I didn’t really know what to say apart from I hope the chemo works and in a few years time you look back and are proud of you and your Wife’s strength through this terrible time. If you need anything, need shopping getting etc just pm me and it shall be done
 
Bloodtangerine said:
I’m so sorry to hear that mate. I didn’t really know what to say apart from I hope the chemo works and in a few years time you look back and are proud of you and your Wife’s strength through this terrible time. If you need anything, need shopping getting etc just pm me and it shall be done
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It is what it is... shit happens... that’s a hell of a kind gesture mate and I know it’s sincere .. thank you👍
 
On Thursday morning I lost my best mate and work colleague of 30 years, as usual arrived at work at 7.15am..we received a call from my pals brother my mate had passed away during the night a massive heart attack he was 52, never smoked, drank he played 5 a sides 3 times a week and cycled miles, absolutely shocked and devastated..never a days unemployment he was..totally lost.
 
Seasider Sam said:
On Thursday morning I lost my best mate and work colleague of 30 years, as usual arrived at work at 7.15am..we received a call from my pals brother my mate had passed away during the night a massive heart attack he was 52, never smoked, drank he played 5 a sides 3 times a week and cycled miles, absolutely shocked and devastated..never a days unemployment he was..totally lost.
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Oh that’s awful Sam.

Are you coping ? Managing to talk to others about it ?
No age at all for your pal 🌹
 
Seasider Sam said:
On Thursday morning I lost my best mate and work colleague of 30 years, as usual arrived at work at 7.15am..we received a call from my pals brother my mate had passed away during the night a massive heart attack he was 52, never smoked, drank he played 5 a sides 3 times a week and cycled miles, absolutely shocked and devastated..never a days unemployment he was..totally lost.
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Bad times Sam, look after yourself fella.
 
Seasider Sam said:
On Thursday morning I lost my best mate and work colleague of 30 years, as usual arrived at work at 7.15am..we received a call from my pals brother my mate had passed away during the night a massive heart attack he was 52, never smoked, drank he played 5 a sides 3 times a week and cycled miles, absolutely shocked and devastated..never a days unemployment he was..totally lost.
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That’s terrible and a terrible shock for you Sam. Look after yourself
 
Newholland said:
Last Monday at 2.55pm our fragile world fell apart, barely a year has passed since my wife’s cancer diagnosis, all the signs were positive but her scan revealed reoccurrence.... disease progression... just simple words which now consume every minute. Her cancer support team are equally surprised, surgery or radiotherapy are not options...she must endure more chemotherapy.
We draw on all our strength to push on...this is hard.
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Late seeing this, but all the best to you. The AVFTT brethren is here for you.
 
Seasider Sam said:
On Thursday morning I lost my best mate and work colleague of 30 years, as usual arrived at work at 7.15am..we received a call from my pals brother my mate had passed away during the night a massive heart attack he was 52, never smoked, drank he played 5 a sides 3 times a week and cycled miles, absolutely shocked and devastated..never a days unemployment he was..totally lost.
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Sorry for your loss Sam.
 
Seasider Sam said:
On Thursday morning I lost my best mate and work colleague of 30 years, as usual arrived at work at 7.15am..we received a call from my pals brother my mate had passed away during the night a massive heart attack he was 52, never smoked, drank he played 5 a sides 3 times a week and cycled miles, absolutely shocked and devastated..never a days unemployment he was..totally lost.
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Lala said:
Oh that’s awful Sam.

Are you coping ? Managing to talk to others about it ?
No age at all for your pal 🌹
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I’m just so shocked Lala, I spoke to my HR this morning a specialist team in bereavement..I just took time off, I
just can’t take it in..I lost my parents, brother and my sister but they were elderly or unwell..and was kinda prepared if you ever can be..this was a bombshell..thanks for kind words.
 
Seasider Sam said:
On Thursday morning I lost my best mate and work colleague of 30 years, as usual arrived at work at 7.15am..we received a call from my pals brother my mate had passed away during the night a massive heart attack he was 52, never smoked, drank he played 5 a sides 3 times a week and cycled miles, absolutely shocked and devastated..never a days unemployment he was..totally lost.
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Lytham_fy8 said:
Bad times Sam, look after yourself fella.
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Thanks Lytham fy8.
 
Seasider Sam said:
On Thursday morning I lost my best mate and work colleague of 30 years, as usual arrived at work at 7.15am..we received a call from my pals brother my mate had passed away during the night a massive heart attack he was 52, never smoked, drank he played 5 a sides 3 times a week and cycled miles, absolutely shocked and devastated..never a days unemployment he was..totally lost.
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straightatthewall said:
Sorry for your loss Sam.
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I appreciate your reply
 
Seasider Sam said:
I’m just so shocked Lala, I spoke to my HR this morning a specialist team in bereavement..I just took time off, I
just can’t take it in..I lost my parents, brother and my sister but they were elderly or unwell..and was kinda prepared if you ever can be..this was a bombshell..thanks for kind words.
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Well if your HR offer you some bereavement counselling definitely consider it.
The shock must be awful, makes it more traumatic sometimes.
Remember things will get better, not always overnight , these things take time. But they do get better if you take care of yourself and allow your grief to come out ❤️
 
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